Dad: Do I know You?

I greatly enjoyed reading this poem by Greg Delanty in this month’s issue of the The Atlantic Monthly and thought I would share it:

Parents

What do any of us know about our parents,
separate or together? My mother kept the house
in order, prepared food, wore the epinetron smooth
rolling the threads, the skeins of daily love.
She wove our clothes, played knucklebones, snakes & ladders,
lined up with other women at the well,
walked home balancing the vase on her head
as she balanced our family, the oikos.
Like most parents she hid her care, sadness, the arguments
with my father heading off on another odyssey.
Da played dead when I stabbed him, let me
wear his helmet, turned into a tickle monster.
Ma scolded him for exciting me before bed.
I suppose they were like most parents. What do I know?
I had no others. They were as mysterious as the night sky,
the Islands of the Blest, the sea, Hades, the god
hidden within the darkness of the forbidden inner temple.

Thoughts for the day, at least for me.

Published by Theodore

Theodore Ross is an editor of Harper’s Magazine. His writing has appeared in Harper’s, Saveur, Tin House, the Mississippi Review, and (of course), the Vietnam News. He grew up in New York City by way of Gulfport, MS, and as a teen played the evil Nazi, Toht, in Raiders of the Lost Ark: The Adaptation. He lives with his son, J.P. in Brooklyn, and is currently working on a book about Crypto-Jews.

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